In the real African America community we women have unwittingly adopted a code. The "she'll learn" code. We go through things ourselves and learn hard lessons. After the lesson is learned, too many times, we don't share them with the other women in our lives. Often we'll see someone our own age or younger headed for the same disaster, but instead of offering a hand or heart we shake our heads, look down and say "she'll learn". This journal was created...