Beyond Acceptance: Parents of Lesbians & Gays Talk about Their Experiences

by Marian J. Wirth, Carolyn Welch Griffin, Arthur G. Wirth

Book Overview

Based upon discussion and interviews conducted with parents belonging to P-FLAG (Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays), a support and advocacy group with over four hundred chapters... This description may be from another edition of this product.

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: 0312167814
• ISBN13: 9780312167813
• Release Date: November 1997
• Publisher: St. Martins Press-3PL
• Length: 256 Pages
• Weight: 0.53 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.7" x 5.5" x 8.4"

Customer Reviews

Beyond Acceptance - A Book

I bought this book for a friend of mine who appreciated it very much. I didn't read it through and through before I gave it to my friend but I did review chapters and felt it was a very thought provoking and insightful book.

A most important book.

Beyond good, this book is important. A book from the voices of parents who have lesbian and/or gay children. We have "heard" plenty from lesbians and gays, pleading for understanding and acceptance, so this book gives the readers a voice from "the other" side.With frank interviews and conversations, we are let in on the angst, the suffering, the fears and disappointments from parents. It covers many aspects of our lives. Most often, the burning question from parents is "what did I do wrong?" Religion, health, acceptance etc....all the way to "should the neighbours know?This book is honestly written from the hearts of the writers, parents who have been through all of that and more. We learn of how they cope or didn't. The journeys they have taken and what the effects are with a lesbian/gay in the family unit. A must read, not just for parents, but also for lesbians and gays, and their siblings. And for everyone else too - I recommend this book. It creates understanding, not answers, through the conversations with various people. In all, it is almost like sitting in a crowd and listening in on an interesting discussion or conversation and gleaning knowledge and understanding!!There is an earlier editon from 1990. Try to get the lastest one, I think 1996/7, with updates on issues like AIDS etc...Buy or borrow this book, read it again and again. Pass it on. For everyone.

An Excellent Coming Out Tool

This book is written as a resource for parents. I bought and read it before coming out to my parents. Insightful and careful writing to help you understand what your parents might feel when you tell them. Then give them a copy when you have the big discussion. The authors use loads of real-life examples from many different people and situations to help parents understand and relate.

Great review of coming-out issues from a parent's perspectiv

This book is like having someone hold your hand as you accept the news that someone you love is gay. It is written by parents who share what were their reactions, questions and fears upon learning that their son or daughter is gay. Is is my fault? What will the neighbors think? What will my church think? The book presents parent's own answers to these questions and refers to current outside writing on the subjects addressed. It's "must read" for anyone trying to understand homosexuality, coming-out and how to best understand and love someone who is gay